Essence (Assignment)

Many sissies get hung up on the kink and excitement of exotic feminine wear. But sometimes the common, normal, everyday pair of panties becomes too common, normal and everyday.


So today you have a special assignment to reconnect you with the garment that most often convinces sissies to embrace their feminine side and leave the woes of their masculinity behind: panties.

Go to a department store and find the women's wear section. Look for all the different kinds of underwear they have there. Make sure you look around all over. If you're not sure you've seen everything ask a store employee for assistance.

Once you've seen everything mull over which pair you would want to buy. Don't just pick the first pair you see and run off. Really think, sissy. Which pair of sensuous panties cries out to you? Are you a thong kind of gal? Basic cotton - maybe with a bow in front? Or are you really racy enough that you would want to wear silky, lacy ruffled panties all day?

Find the pair that speaks to you the most. You don't have to buy them (sissies shopping for clothes tend to be a bit short on cash), but maybe you should. They could be your bottom's next bosom buddy. And of course, there may be a matching bra to be your bosom's bosom buddy, too.

And if any clerk or employee asks, you should be a good, honest girl and tell them the truth: that you're looking for the best pair of panties for a very special person.

Excuses

...They're like panties.


Every sissy has them (well, very closeted sissies may only be at the point where they want them :D).


Also: I'll let you know if I come across any good CEI videos.

Ending the Addiction (Sissy Lifestyle)

It's a sad fact that many sissies just have not embraced the comfort, variety, beauty and femininity of panties as everyday wear. Some sissies choose to go each day wearing gross tighty whiteys or unflattering boxers. You are girly and feminine and beautiful—You deserve to wear panties, sissy!

Unfortunately, switching over to panties in one fell-swoop is not feasible for most sissies. Male underwear is an addiction you have to break, girl. And just like smoking, going cold turkey usually ends with poor results. Some sissies have a fear that people will notice, some start too lavishly and can't find panties to wear every day (ironically named boyshorts are perfect if your clitty is being bothersome!). And some sissies have to contend with snooping roommates and family members—so it can be important to go slow.

Needless to say, if you don't even have any girly underwear, your first step is going to have to be buying panties (I recommend using packs of underwear to help build your wardrobe at first).


Now to get on the road to recovering from icky men's underwear. Naturally, if you're here, you should already be wearing a pair of sleek, comfortable, girly panties.

Now gather up all your inappropriate male underwear. How many pairs do you have sissy? That's how many weeks you'll be working on your assignment. Grab a permanent marker or a scissors. It's time for your weekly ritual. And remember: never touch yourself before you complete your assignment.

Start by repeating this:

I promise never to buy men's underwear ever again. 
I am a sissy that deserves to wear women's underwear.
Panties make me confident, sexy and feminine.

Good girl! Repeat as many times as necessary.

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Now look through your old, stale men's underwear. Find any that have holes or tears and get rid of them. Write "NOT FOR SISSIES" with your marker or simply cut them to pieces. Then throw them out. Think about it sissy, why do you have these tattered clothes? There's no good reason to keep them around.

If you carefully handle your clothes and have a suitable dainty lifestyle (or you're on your second week), you may find that all of your bland male underwear is in tip-top shape (at least in terms of fabric quality). In that case, take your most stained, dirtiest or frayed underwear and get rid of it the same way as before.

Once your old male underwear is tattered remnants or properly marked, throw it in the trash where it belongs.

This will be your weekly endeavor. Set aside a day each week and do it like a good girl. You will slowly wean yourself off the unnecessary habit of wearing men's underwear. As a bonus: more room for awesome girly panties or other clothes in your wardrobe.

(For secretive sissies: other people, like family members or a wife are still allowed to buy underwear for you. You are not allowed to ask them to do it. And you're still going to have to do all the weeks you set forth at the start.)