2012 Resolutions (1)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So today and tomorrow I'll have some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own feminization throughout the year.

Femininity is the key trait for a good sissy. Taking on the mannerisms, affectations, demeanor and general state of the fairer, better sex is what being a sissy is all about. So it's important to pick and stick to a resolution that will help develop your girlhood, even if it's something you alone will notice.


1. Grow your hair.

Hair grows a little more than 1 cm (about half an inch) per month. That means if you don't cut your hair at all this year, you'll be well on your way to luxurious, feminine locks for your next New Year's resolution. Of course, split ends and frayed hair aren't so appealing, so don't hesitate to get your hair trimmed once or twice during the year.


2. Use hygiene products for women

No, not tampons (unless you're very dedicated). This is for more mundane, everyday stuff. The most obvious example would be deodorant. Secret would be deliciously fitting, don't you think, sissy? Other options are: replacing your Schick with a Venus. Replacing your ChapStick with a shimmering Burt's Bees lip shimmer. You might even look into something as simple as a brand new purple or pink toothbrush.


3. Pluck your eyebrows

It's been covered here before: don't let the immaculate eyebrows you see on the street fool you. Getting a perfect feminine arch takes delicate plucking (or a steady hand with an eyebrow pencil). So there's no reason that you can't get your own sissy tweezers dedicated to sculpting your brow. Of course, you could resolve to plug 3 or 5 hairs every day until you've got the right shape, so that you don't accidentally make a irreparable mistake or surprise your coworkers too much. And once you've got them just perfect, you can move on to maintaining them for the rest of the year (they do grow back, of course!).


4. Switch to all feminine underwear

Gradually throughout the year - either once a week or whenever they have holes - throw out your old, gross male boxers or briefs and replace them with the delectable panties your inner sissy desires. By this time next year, you can be sure you'll have a drawer of beautiful panties, thongs, bikini bottoms and other with lingerie - and not a pair of bulky, unflattering, rough male underwear. Bras are optional :D (perhaps you're a sissy in the spirit of 70s femininism?).

So there you go sissy. You need not pick right now - it's not yet the New Year. But you should certainly mull over what sort of resolution you want to proclaim for yourself. One that you can unwaveringly follow.

Going overseas and don't want to explain your dove lady's deodorant to a TSA agent? Well you may be better of winking at him with your immaculate eyebrows. Head a bit too patchy for beautiful, flowing sissy locks (it's okay, sissy, a decent number of women also suffer from receding hairlines)? It may be time to focus a bit lower down and sculpt what hair you do have for your brand new panty collection.

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2012 Resolutions (2)

It's almost the beginning of a new year (for most of the world, anyway), which means it's also time for resolutions. Goals for you to aspire to and fulfill for a full year. So yesterday and today I've got some resolution ideas for you. They'll be split between feminization and sissification.


Today is the day to pick a resolution for your own sissification throughout the year.

Every sissy aspires to pure femininity, but their end-goal as a girl can differ greatly. Some want to be cuckolded, some want to become cumsluts, some want to be obedient submissives, and others just want to be girls. Some are undecided and sample from all walks of sissydom. So your sissification goal will very much depend on you.


1. Buy a dildo and/or a butt plug.

Do you dream of sucking cock every night? Is your mind full of ideas of you dressed as a slut, taking it in each of your sissy holes? If either of those sound remotely like you, then it's time to stop putting off your destiny any longer. Buy a dildo or a buttplug (or both) and start practicing stretching and sucking every day. When you finally reach the tipping point of making your dreams come true you'll be ready on moment's notice. Plus you'll have loads of fun in the meantime.


2. Only cum once per week

As discussed previously, your head and male persona are the main obstacles preventing your sissification from progressing more rapidly. Right after he cums he wants to rub off all the makeup, turn off the hypnosis and spit out that lovely load of cum. Well it's time to limit his influence by limiting how often you masturbate to just once a week. 52 orgasms per year or fewer. It may even be time to get yourself a cage and hand off the key to someone to keep you honest. But think of the progress your feminine side will make (and how sensitive your clitty will be for each time you cum)!


3. Get and maintain a sissy tan

You don't need deep-bronzed skin. You don't even need to visit a tanning salon every day, but you are going at least 3 times per week until you get a base tan, and then once per week after that. Wearing a bikini (or bra and panties) so that you can be sure to have sissy lingerie branded onto your skin. And then in summer you can tan outside, how perfect for a blossoming sissy!


4. Get a professional manicure/pedicure at least every 3 months.

Sissies, like the girls they emulate, focus on beauty. And if a sissy's goal is simply to be the best possible girl, then she certainly has to follow suit. Many women treat themselves to manicures and pedicures for special occasions. And while many of them do them at home very week or two, beauty-conscious women often go in for professional work every few months for a day of pampering. It's time to add that to you schedule. You're going to get your nails done - professionally (although you can certainly work on them every week at home, too). And you'll surely want to build up a rapport with your nail technician, so make sure you go to the same nail salon each time.


5. Wear diapers at least once per day

Because many sissies love AB/DL, I've got an extra resolution option for them: wear a diaper at least one day per week. Of course, on the day diapers are mandatory good little sissies will only use the potty once in the morning, and then are relegated to their diaper for the rest of the day.


So there you go, sissies. It's time to pick which resolutions you want to embrace for the coming year. You'll certainly need one feminization resolution, but whether or not you have a sissification goal is up to you (of course, if it were up to me I'd say "Yes, you need to have one!" :D ).

That does it for 2011. Thanks for visiting the blog and providing feedback (also nice to see the feminization resolutions have garnered such a fast response!). I appreciate the support! So...

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2014 Resolutions

It's still January, so you still have time to decide on a sissy resolution for the year. There are plenty of good ones. If you have the hair for it, growing it out is always a great option. Getting a little bit more femme by plucking your eyebrows also provides a good long-term investment in your girliness. But here are some other ideas to help with your feminization and sissification:


 1. Give up the sugary drinks and snacks.

Nothing is harder on your figure than soda, sweetened tea and super sweet energy drinks. They're a lot of empty calories you don't need and prevent you from looking your best. So start replacing your drinks with water, (soy) milk, coffee or tea (fennel or spearmint tea in particular might be useful for sissies seeking a little "enhancement").

Giving up soda cold turkey can be difficult; you may need to ween yourself off of the sweetened drinks by allowing yourself a treat when you complete a goal (or just one for the weekend). Not buying the drinks in the first place is the safest way to make sure you don't accidentally relapse. But if you can hold off completely you'll be on your way to a slimmer, healthier body for your inner sissy. And of course, the money you save could go to a nice dress or that perfect pair of shoes...


 2. Buy a chastity cage.

A chastity cage for your clitty is a great investment. It lets you play risk/reward games with yourself and, more importantly, helps you avoid the unwarranted shame and doubt that often creeps in whenever a sissy cums. As a bonus for cum-loving sissies, holding off on masturbation for 2-3 days will make sure you have a nice big surprise waiting when (or if :D ) you do get the chance to cum.

It may be difficult to wear a chastity cage for prolonged periods at first, but after a few times for a couple hours and then a couple days you'll be on your way to a hornier, girlier you. If you don't have someone to hang onto your key for you, freezing it into a block of ice always helps keep you honest.


3. Start wearing a bra for the whole day at least once per week

That's right - lift and support. From the start of your day until you hop into bed, you'll wear a bra for the whole day at least once per week. The kind of bra is up to you (it is your resolution after all): wonder bras, sports bras, push-up bras... Your choice of style is almost as limitless as your choice of color and material.

Still got most of your sissy-ness hidden away in a closet? Unless you're wearing white shirts and planning on getting wet you've got nothing to worry about (especially with a slim, tight fitting sports bra). In terms of "easy to hide", most sissies think panties or pantyhose are the safest option. But ask yourself this: How many plumbers cracks have you seen on an average day? And compare that to how many bare shoulders you have seen. Unless you're spending an awful lot of time at the beach, you'll notice that you never really see anyone's upper chest or shoulders. Even if you're hesitant, you've got nothing to fear. Except for maybe the trips to the lingerie store.


4. Perpetual pedicure

If a bra seems like it's too much, perhaps it's time to go a bit lower? Keep your toenails in tip-top shape the entire year. Make sure they're polished at least 24 days per month (keep in mind that darker pigments can lead to discoloration, so you may want to just go clear and shiny every once and a while). By the time you get to summer, you might be so disappointed no one gets to see your handiwork that you'll want to wear sandals just to show off!

As with most resolutions, it's best to set a schedule so that you develop a routine you can follow (for example, make Sunday pedicure day where you clean up and apply a fresh, new color).

Remember that your resolution should push your boundaries but not exceed them. If it's a resolution you can't keep it's not much of a resolution. Cutting out sugary drinks or only cumming once per week are good budget resolutions any sissy can do without worry.

Time to get out there and show your resolve to be a better, beautiful sissy in 2014!

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