Sit back and relax

Maybe listen to a little something...


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Extorted

But is it really blackmail if you're so willing to do it, sissy?


Besides, sissy, you can be sure anyone who gives you print blackmail photos already has plenty of digital copies squirreled away waiting to be sent off if you're not careful.

With Love from Sissy (Assignment)

Happy Valentine's Day, Sissies!

Hopefully you've gone and handed someone you fancy a valentine signed with your girly name (if not, there's still time!). There's no better way you show your appreciation than to make your feelings known.

But Valentine's Day is about love, so it's a great time to show your love for your girly side, too.


And what better way to show your love for your sissy side and your special someone than by practicing your girly voice while singing a love song? Time to serenade the love of your life with an appropriately girly tune (or at least practice). Not much practice talking like a girl? You should really remedy that, sissy.

You're the only one that can know the perfect song to represent your feelings, but there are tons and tons to choose from. Maybe you're a bit addicted to that person you love? Or they're the fuel for your flame? Or maybe you're just hoping they'll make the first move

Find your girly voice and try to talk out what you love about being a girl and your special someone. Make sure you've got your voice nice and solid in your girly range (no accidental squeaking or falling back to your dull male voice). Then practice your song a few times (since some of you sissies cheat and don't follow through: that's 3 practice tries, sissy).

Then it's time to belt it out like a sissy diva. Extra bonus points for doing it properly dressed and in front of your beloved (but don't worry if you're too shy to openly profess your love of being a sissy and your love of that special someone).

Sun, Swimming and Sissy (Assignment)


It's summer, sissy! (At least for the northern hemisphere, where most sissies are—sorry southern sissies). You know what that means? Going outside to enjoy the nice, warm sun. Showing a bit of skin with tight, short clothing. And outdoor swimming to tone up your butt, keep you sleek and show off your feminine curves. What's the point of shaving your legs, painting your toenails and toning your body if you're not going to show it off, sissy?

Let me stop you right now and tell you that this assignment is best done on a warm (75 °F/25 °C), sunny day. If you're an unfortunate sissy living in a rainy, overcast-laden locale, wait for a good day before reading and doing this assignment. But if you're a lucky sissy blessed with good weather, carry on!

Now, you might have worn a women's swimming suit before or you might not have one yet. Today it won't matter.

I've espoused my love of the one-piece before (sure you can show off more of your body with a bikini, but there's nothing that screams "I am girly" like a form-fitting one-piece you can't escape or hide like a bikini bottom.

Your assignment today is very simple, sissy: Go play in the water like a girl. First, don your girly swimming suit. One-piece, two-piece (even an amazing three-piece where the bikini bottom ties together!), the specific suit isn't that important. Now get in the water. Done.

(Needless to say, sissy. You shouldn't be cleaning off any nail polish or makeup you might be wearing.)

If you're one of those sissies in denial that hasn't come to terms with the fact she shouldn't be buying men's clothing and all you have is gruff, ugly male swimming trunks, you will have to "make" your own swimming suit. Grab a permanent marker and draw the outline of the suit you are supposed to be wearing. That's right sissy - the line under your breasts, the fabric patch covering your nipples, the straps to hold it in place, the strings of your bikini bottom. You will draw your suit on everywhere you can reach. Finally, as punishment for not accepting your true nature, you'll also write "I am a sissy" on your tummy in big, legible letters. That way, when you buy your one-piece to cover the writing, you can go out and no one will know what a bad girl you've been.

 
Backyard pool, busy beach, secluded watering hole. The location doesn't matter, as long as you're wet from head to toe. Feel the added weight of the water soaked into your suit. Cherish the gentle caress of your sopping wet suit clinging to you in all the right girly places.

Of course, for more house-bound sissies (or sissies living in deserts), it can be a bit difficult to find a bathing spot. In that case, you can use your bathtub. Fill it up, splash around, and enjoy yourself. Then quickly pull on your (white!) overshirt and shorts if necessary, throw on your sandals and head out to check the mail or walk around the block. No dillydallying, sissy—you'd better me wet in all the right ways when you get outside!

Now that you've taken your first dip into the summer, it may be time for a bit of tanning. Or just lounge around and enjoy your girly attire until it's dry and then put it away for next time. Time to start enjoying the summer, sissy!

Beads

There's a reason she's your Mistress and not your Occasionally Mistress.


Obviously if you are her sissy she knows what's best for you.

(Also this is what I would have posted on Thursday, had my computer decided it didn't want to partially exploded on me half-way through making it - but on the plus side, my computer is back to life :D )

Anonymity (Poster)

So your legs are silky smooth and you might happen to have a shimmering pink bracelet that reminds you that you should be feminine whenever you can. Maybe you've gone out in public very self-conscious that other people will see the shimmer of your painted nails. Maybe you've worried that a coworker would notice your panty lines or bra straps under your shirt.

Or you might be trying to keep your sissy side a secret. And only your neighbors know - staring at you through your bedroom window each time you decide to transform yourself into your beautiful inner sissy. You might even have a secret admirer who doesn't even know your name - only your beautiful feminized form in the window across the street.



Or maybe you've been a very secretive sissy - hoarding your femininity all to yourself :D

Yuki's Years

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Workout

It will all work out in the end.


Of course, it may be inside your end.

Girl Time (Assignment)

Many sissy blogs have an overt fixation on sex, without a focus on much else (over the last month or so this is probably true for the Sissy Spot as well). This is understandable, since many sissies are, in fact, perpetually horny and have an overt fixation on sex. Sissies often have a very high sex drive - even if they're not able to exercise it (due to chastity belts or for other reasons).

But whether you hope to become (or your mistress is transforming you into) a cock-crazed super slut or you want to be a more down-to-earth, feminine counterpart to your old male self, there's a simple truth. There's no way your life could exclusively consist of sex and sleeping. Sex is tiring work.


So today we're going to help you get in touch with your sissy side, even during down time. Being girly during daily life is far more enduring and important than just being dressed in girl's clothes for 15 minutes while you rub your clitty through your panties.

So tomorrow after you get home from work or class (or when you wake up, if you have nothing to do tomorrow), you're going to start relaxing like a girl. Of course, like many fun, feminine things this will actually take a little work at first ("Work to relax, Natalie?" I hear you cry. Yes! That's how it becomes routine, more enjoyable and easier to slip into without thinking about it).

You'll have to start with loose relaxation clothes. I recommend panties, a loose-fitting dress and some stockings. If you're a very under-stocked sissy, you could even get by with boxers (or pajama bottoms) and an over-sized T-shirt, but then you'll need to be absolutely sure you don't do any of your stressful, old masculine leisure activities. Then you'll need to put on a little make-up. Blush, lipstick and eyeshadow would be sufficient; you can go more in-depth if you want, but it really needs to be "quick jaunt to the store make-up" - a light application.


If you've gone full-on raccoon eyeliner and porn star-esque lipliner you've certainly gone too far. A good benchmark: you'll know you're wearing make up, but if someone didn't know how you looked saw you, they wouldn't notice that you're wearing any.

Now you're ready to relax until you have to go to sleep. What to do to relax? One of my favorite things is to curl up with a stuffed animal and watch a nice movie. A "chick flick", a childhood favorite or a simple drama would be best. Naturally plenty of actual girls like action or sci-fi, but you'll need something softer and more cerebral for this assignment.

Alternatively you could practice giving yourself a manicure or pedicure - they can be quite relaxing when done right (of course). An excellent option is to take a lovely, scented body lotion and give yourself a massage (you'll also have the side-benefit of smelling very femme!).L Listening to music and chatting are also good girly past times. Reading (if in doubt find a female author) or doing puzzles will work nicely as well.

Just make sure you're doing things you enjoy that you wouldn't be doing in "boy mode" (or however you want to refer to those boring things you pretend to enjoy when not being true to your sissy self).

There's only one thing you mustn't do. You are absolutely, positively not allowed to touch your clitty. No sex, no masturbation. Dressing like a girl may still excite you, but sex is only a very small portion of what you do during the day, so it's time to practice something else instead of rubbing yourself to orgasm. This also has the side benefit of keeping you a bit more focused on being girly.

So get out there and relax, sissy :D

Open for Regina

I hope you sissies have kept busy with your tanning. There's no reason to squander your summer, sissy - get out there and take the steps to being a better sissy.

That's obviously  long-term sissy project, but there's certainly some shorter term tasks to help you on your way.


Yes, I know, many of you sissies don't actually have petite feet - It doesn't matter what size they physically are, it's how you work them and treat them.

And don't you fucking dare tell me you don't even have clear nail polish, sissy. There are kinds that even men use to strengthen weak nails; tell the cashier you're working on an art project if you want to play up the charade that you're not a complete and utter sissy.